We offer positive dog training serving Chardon, OH and surrounding areas. If you have a stubborn dog or a dog that acts out, you might notice that shock collars and control don’t work well. You might also feel that you do not want to use force and control to get your dog to listen. You might be someone that wants to motivate your dog to listen through kindness. We get it. One of the biggest secrets in training your dog positively is to change your focus.
Is Your Attention on the Bad Behavior? – Positive Dog Training Serving Chardon, OH
Think about something that your dog does that annoys or frustrates you. How much time and energy do you put on that behavior? Do you talk and vent about it? Do you wish the behavior to stop? Do you tell your dog “no” or “stop” when your dog does this behavior that you dislike? What are some behaviors that your dog does that you do not like? Here are some examples of annoying behaviors:
- jumping on people
- play biting or mouthing
- running away from you instead of coming
- pulling on the leash
- jumping on counters
- barking for attention
- barking at people or dogs passing by
Do you have another behavior that annoys you that isn’t on the list? Drop me an e-mail and tell me about it. I would like to hear about it because I can help you. For in person, we offer positive dog training serving Chardon, OH and surrounding areas. We also offer live help through Zoom, so even if you live out of our serving location, we can still help you.
Notice you get more of what you think about. If you focus on gratitude, you see more good things happening in your life and more good things flow to you. If you focus on complaining, you see more things that you don’t like and more of you don’t like gravitates towards you.
It’s the same with your dog. If your dog is mouthing you and you keep saying “no” when your dog is mouthing you, you are giving the exact attention to the behavior you don’t like. So what do you get more off? More mouthing. The same goes for the other behaviors. Let’s spell it out clearly for you.
If your dog is running away from you instead of coming, do you run after your dog and say ‘get over here!’? What do you do? Are you giving your dog attention for running away from you? Your dog might even see running away from you as a game!
What about jumping? Do you tell your dog “off” or “no” when your dog jumps? Now you are giving lots of attention to the jumping and you get more jumping.
When your dog is pulling on the leash, do you keep walking forward? Your dog wants to walk forward, so if you are walking forward when your dog is pulling, you are giving attention and focus on the leash pulling. Then you get more leash pulling.
When your dog barks, do you tell him to “be quiet” or “no”? Again your dog is getting much attention for the barking and your dog might even see that you are barking with him! He / She might be thinking, “My owner is joining me and we are barking together!”
When your dog jumps on the counter or gets into the trash do you rush over and tell your dog “no”? You want the behavior to stop because you don’t want your dog to eat food he or she shouldn’t eat. You also don’t want have to buy more food because your dog jump up and ate it. Notice, you gave your dog attention as soon as he or she went after the food.
By now you can see how much attention you might be giving to the behaviors that you don’t like and want to stop. Now it’s time to flip the switch. How do we change the focus? How do we start paying more attention to the behaviors that we like? When we give more attention to the behaviors we like, your dog is getting more attention for those behaviors. As a result, your dog will do more of the behaviors that you like.
If you need help we offer positive dog training serving Chardon, OH, Our Elementary Obedience Group Dog Training Course might be a perfect fit for you and your dog / puppy. It is held in the Chalet at the Chardon Living Memorial near the Chardon High School. Four Legged Scholars offers this course through the Chardon Recreation Center.

Change Your Focus to the Positive Behaviors
Start simple. Make a list of behaviors that you would like your dog to do instead. Are any of these behaviors on your list?
- Sitting or laying down
- Relaxing on his / her bed
- Playing with his / her toys
- Walking loosely on the leash
- Choosing to move away from the window when a person or dog passes and being more quiet
- Waiting quietly while you are doing a task
- Coming to you
The first step is your mind. Making this list will remind your mind to focus on the behaviors you want to reward. You have to focus more on what you want, to remember to reward your dog the good behavior. When you reward the good behaviors, you will get more of these behaviors. The trick is to change your focus.
Talk to your friends and family more about what you want your dog to do. Think about your dog doing more of these good behaviors. Catch your dog when he or she is in the act of doing these behaviors, and reward your dog when he or she is doing them.
When your dog does something you do not like, ignore it or redirect that behavior. Then give more attention to the behavior that you do like. So when your dog jumps, turn your back and take away the focus on the jumping. Change your focus to rewarding your dog when he or she sits, downs or stands. Give your dog a treat when he does this good behavior.
If your dog is relaxing and being good, its a good time to reward this. Usually we ignore this. Remember we want to change your focus to rewarding this calming and relaxing behavior. Your dog may be calm and relaxed when you are doing one of the following:
- talking on the phone
- cooking in the kitchen
- eating a meal
- working on the computer
Instead of waiting for the jumping, the barking, or the mouthing to happen, reward your dog when he / she is quiet and calm (laying down, sitting, relaxing , etc.) with praise, slow calm petting, or treats. Treats can include something that your dog can chew. A bone or Kong can work well. Chewing may relax your dog even more and reinforce your dog’s calm behavior on a deeper level.
To get your dog to come, think of something that will encourage your dog to turn or run towards you. Here are some ideas:
- a fun noise such as a kissing noise
- clapping your hands
- running away from your dog
- kneeling down
- squeaking a toy
- showing a treat
Once your dog comes, give him / her the item (treat or toy) that he wants. If he won’t come, change your focus to make it easier. Try training in a less distracting setting. This can also work to redirect your dog when he or she is barking out the window. Redirect your dog to move away from the window with one of the above ideas. Then, reward your dog once he turns towards you or comes to you. Repeat numerous times.
If your dog is getting into the trash or jumping on the counter, change your focus to giving something fun for your dog to do. Your dog might be communicating that he or she is bored and needs some mental stimulation or exercise. Some dogs want 2 or more hours of exercise a day! 5-10 minutes of play to redirect the behavior, may not be enough.
Instead of leaving the toys out all of the time, bring out a specific toy when needed. Before you start eating, cooking, getting on the phone or working on the computer, give your dog a fun toy that will occupy him. Have some special toys that are not in your dog’s reach. Bring those toys out during these specific times of the day. These toys become more novel. Praise your dog when he or she chooses to play with them instead of barking, mouthing, jumping, etc.
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When walking your dog on the leash, stop walking or change directions when your dog pulls. When the leash is loose walk forward. Now you are giving your dog attention for a loose leash. You can also click and treat when your dog is walking nicely on the leash. You changed your focus to nice leash walking. When your dog pulls, stop giving attention to the pulling by not walking forward, backing up, or changing directions. Ignore the pulling or redirect the pulling behavior. When you back up or changing directions you are immediately rewarding your dog when he choses to put slack on the leash. The slack leash is your new focus. Reward your dog when the leash is slack.
In our Elementary Obedience Course, we are constantly reminding our clients to focus on the positive behaviors that their dogs are doing. Most of the dogs want to bark in the first class. Rewarding the dogs for laying down, being quiet, sitting, going on their bed, etc., keeps our classes calm. We offer positive dog training serving Chardon, OH. Check out our next Elementary Obedience Course now.
Saying “No” Can be Rewarding Your Dog
Negative attention is attention. When you say “no,” you are focusing on the behavior that you dislike. Your dog is getting attention for that behavior. Instead, remember to focus on ignoring or redirecting the behavior you dislike. Reward your dog as soon as he performs the good behavior.
Look above for the redirection ideas. Just remember to stop saying “no.” First you are focusing on what you dislike when you do that. Your mind is then subconsciously looking to for another time to say “no” to your dog. Your mind is searching for what you do NOT want.
When you reward the good behavior, your mind starts looking for when your dog is doing good. Your body is ready to reward this good behavior with a treat, toy, praise, petting. etc. You are searching for the next good behavior and ready to reward it. Your dog will also be getting more attention for that good behavior. Now you have changed your focus.
Repetition is Key
Rewarding your dog for doing the good behavior one time and then going back to saying “no” for the bad behavior is not enough. You have to constantly recommit to reward the good behavior. You may need to redirect your dog hundreds of times before he or she starts choose the good behavior more often.
Stay steady and remain focused on what you want your dog to. Keep redirecting him / her over and over again. Keep repeatedly rewarding what you want him / her to do to get behavior to change.
Here is one example. If your dog is barking at the window, you redirect your dog to come to you with a treat. You reward your dog for coming to you. Your dog goes back to the window and barks again. You call him to you again and reward him for coming. You have repeat this over and over again. Eventually, your dog may bark and come to independently. Make sure you reward this good choice so your dog knows to choose to come to you more often rather than bark continuously at the window.
When we work with positive dog training serving Chardon, OH we constantly remind owners to train the same behavior over and over again. Repetition is key.
Changing Your Energy to Change Your Focus – Positive Dog Training Serving Chardon, OH
If you are stressed, your dog will follow your lead. Stress shuts down the cortex or the thinking part of the brain. Both you and your dog are in a reactive state. The change starts with you. Notice when you want to yell or say “no.” It’s time to realign yourself. Changing your energy to feel more calm is changing your focus to be more grounded and relaxed. The more grounded and relax you feel, the more your dog will follow your lead. Your nervous systems entrain to each other. Meaning your dog feeds of your stress.
What are some activities that help you to relax? Do them. Drop me an e-mail and tell me what helps you to relax. I want to hear from you!
Here are some ideas or activities that might help you ground:
- Stretching your neck
- Shaking your body
- Eye patching
- Yoga
- Meditation
- Breathing through your belly. A longer out breath will relax you more.
- Talking to yourself in a soothing manner. Reminding yourself that you are safe and loved.
- Alternate nostril breathing
- Rapid Eye
- Exercise
If you aren’t grounded it is hard to change your focus to the positive. You may need to ground yourself first. Then you cab change your focus more easily. Change your energy and change your dog. Change your focus and change what your dog does. You have more control than you think.
Many dog trainers don’t help owners change their energy. Four Legged Scholars offers positive dog training serving Chardon OH for both the dog and the human. We understand that the humans are a large part of dog training. Check out our upcoming FREE class “Is Your Dog Acting Out?” Calm Your Energy to Calm Your Dog. This course is at the Burton, OH public library.
Be a Team With Your Dog
Your dog has needs and wants too. Listen to him or her. You dog is not a human being. Jumping, barking, mouthing, running away, and leash pulling on the leas are normal for your dog to do. Your dog isn’t trying to annoy you or to be bad. He / she is just being a dog. You have to teach him the appropriate boundaries of your household. You also have to meet your dog’s needs. Your dog will listen better if his or her needs are met. Do the following to meet his / her needs:
- Exercise. For some dogs they need 2 or more hours of exercise each day!
- Explore. Your dog has a strong nose and may want to sniff and explore his / her environment. Feeding your dog in an enrichment toy instead of a food bowl can meet this need. With a go find it game, let your dog sniff and explore safely in the house. Also allow him to sniff and explore on leash walks or in your yard.
- Play. Use toys or other dogs to meet this need.
- Mental Stimulation. Your dog will want to learn and use his . her mind. Train him or him. Use enrichment toys that cause your dog to use his or her mind.
Your dog may have a minimal need to lay and relax often. He may be an active dog. Do you need help with a dog sitter, walker or daycare? Check out our Local Services page for suggestions for people and businesses that can support you with exercising your dog.
Four Legged Scholars offers positive dog training serving Chardon, OH. We can come to your home and help you privately. We also have our new Elementary Obedience Group Dog Training Course held through the Chardon Recreation Center. This course is great for basic obedience and socialization with your dog or puppy.































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